Is someone in immediate danger?

If a child or young person is at risk of immediate harm:

Call 999 Now

Police • Ambulance • Fire — available 24/7

Not immediate danger, but your child needs to talk?

Childline is free, confidential, and available 24/7 for children and young people.

Childline: 0800 1111
Step-by-Step Guidance

What's Happened?

Select the situation that best describes what you're dealing with.

URGENT

Inappropriate Message Received

  1. 1

    Stay calm — your reaction will influence your child's willingness to disclose

  2. 2

    Do NOT respond to the sender

  3. 3

    Screenshot the message(s) including the sender's profile information

  4. 4

    Block the sender on the platform

  5. 5

    Report to the platform using their in-app reporting tool

  6. 6

    Report to CEOP if the sender appears to be an adult contacting a child

  7. 7

    Reassure your child: "You did the right thing telling me. This is not your fault."

CRITICAL

Suspected Grooming

  1. 1

    Do NOT alert the suspected groomer — do not confront or message them

  2. 2

    Preserve all evidence: screenshots of conversations, gifts received, account details

  3. 3

    Report immediately to CEOP (ceop.police.uk/ceop-reporting)

  4. 4

    Contact your local police if you believe the child is in immediate danger (999)

  5. 5

    Do NOT delete any messages or evidence

  6. 6

    Support your child — they may not recognise what is happening as harmful

  7. 7

    Contact the NSPCC Helpline (0808 800 5000) for professional guidance

URGENT

Disturbing Content Seen

  1. 1

    Close the content but do NOT delete browser history (may be needed as evidence)

  2. 2

    Talk to your child calmly about what they saw — listen without judgement

  3. 3

    Note the URL/platform where the content was found

  4. 4

    Report illegal content to IWF (iwf.org.uk) if it involves child sexual abuse material

  5. 5

    Report to the platform if the content violates their terms

  6. 6

    Monitor your child for signs of distress over the following days/weeks

  7. 7

    Contact Childline (0800 1111) if your child needs to talk to someone

CRITICAL

Nude Images Found/Shared

  1. 1

    Do NOT forward, save, or share the images — this may constitute a criminal offence

  2. 2

    If an adult is involved, report to police (101 or 999 if immediate danger)

  3. 3

    If under-18 to under-18, this is a safeguarding matter — contact school DSL

  4. 4

    Report to the platform to have images removed

  5. 5

    Use the Report Remove tool (childline.org.uk/report-remove) for under-18s

  6. 6

    For AI-generated images of a real child: report to CEOP and IWF immediately

  7. 7

    Reassure the child: blame lies with the person who shared, not the person in the image

URGENT

Cyberbullying

  1. 1

    Listen to your child and take their experience seriously

  2. 2

    Screenshot all evidence including dates, times, usernames, and content

  3. 3

    Block the bully on all platforms

  4. 4

    Report to the platform — most have specific anti-bullying reporting tools

  5. 5

    Report to the school if the bully is a classmate (schools have a legal duty to act)

  6. 6

    Do NOT retaliate or encourage your child to respond

  7. 7

    Contact Childline (0800 1111) or the Anti-Bullying Alliance for support

  8. 8

    Monitor your child's wellbeing — cyberbullying has serious mental health impacts

CRITICAL

Sextortion / Blackmail

  1. 1

    Tell your child: "This is NOT your fault. You are the victim of a crime."

  2. 2

    Do NOT pay any money or comply with demands — it almost never stops the demands

  3. 3

    Do NOT delete conversations — they are evidence

  4. 4

    Screenshot all communications including the blackmailer's demands and account details

  5. 5

    Report to police immediately (101, or 999 if threats to life)

  6. 6

    Report to CEOP (ceop.police.uk/ceop-reporting)

  7. 7

    Report to the platform — accounts used for sextortion can be quickly removed

  8. 8

    Contact the Revenge Porn Helpline (0345 6000 459) for image removal support

  9. 9

    Seek emotional support: Childline (0800 1111), Samaritans (116 123)

URGENT

Mental Health Concerns

  1. 1

    If your child is in immediate danger of self-harm: call 999

  2. 2

    Talk to your child — ask directly: "Are you thinking about hurting yourself?"

  3. 3

    Contact your GP for an urgent referral to CAMHS

  4. 4

    Call Childline (0800 1111) — available 24/7, free, confidential

  5. 5

    Call the Samaritans (116 123) — available 24/7 for anyone in distress

  6. 6

    Review and restrict access to platforms showing harmful content

  7. 7

    Contact the school DSL — they can coordinate multi-agency support

  8. 8

    Do NOT dismiss concerns as "just the internet" — online and offline distress are equally real

Critical

Evidence Preservation Guide

1

Screenshot Everything

Capture messages, profiles, usernames, timestamps. Use the device's built-in screenshot tool.

2

Do NOT Delete

Do not delete messages, clear browser history, or uninstall apps. This evidence may be crucial for investigation.

3

Note the Details

Write down: platform name, usernames involved, approximate dates/times, what happened.

4

Preserve Devices

If police may be involved, preserve the device as-is. Do not factory reset or hand it to anyone except police.

5

Secure Storage

Save screenshots to a secure location (not on the child's device). Email them to yourself as a backup.

AUREN

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